Love shouldn’t cost you your peace or your identity…
If you feel unseen, emotionally drained, or confused in relationships, you’re not crazy. This is your space to reconnect with yourself and make choices that honor your worth.
Meet Ola, Founder of Love & Self-Esteem

Hi, I’m Ola, the founder of Love & Self-Esteem. I created this space for anyone who has ever questioned whether their relationship is healthy or if they are slowly losing themselves in the name of love.
Trying to find clarity, leave something toxic, or rebuild your self-worth? Tired of shrinking, over-giving, or decoding mixed signals just to feel “chosen?”
Love & Self-Esteem is here for you! This space is about choosing yourself. Not later. Now. Learn more…
Start with the Free Boundary Setting Workbook

Set Boundaries Without Guilt. Reclaim Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.
Tired of over-explaining, second-guessing, or feeling guilty for having needs? This empowering workbook will help you set clear, confident boundaries without apology. What you’ll find inside includes:-
- Real-life scripts for love, family, and work.
- Reflection prompts to understand where you’re giving too much.
- A simple formula to speak your truth without guilt.
Because love shouldn’t leave you depleted, and saying “no” is a form of self-respect. It’s free for subscribers. Download it here and start protecting your peace.