Ola 
The process of reaching out to your ex always starts with a seemingly harmless thought. “I wonder how he’s doing.” Then comes “I just want closure.” Followed by “It wouldn’t hurt to say hi.” Or the classics: “I just have a quick question,” or “Nothing wrong with being friends.” Next thing you know, you’re hovering over …
There’s a specific kind of love that only blooms in February. The type where the effort is seasonal, the affection is performative, and the flowers are delivered right on cue because it’s February 14, and that’s what’s expected. For 24 hours, you’re flooded with the illusion of being loved and cherished. But then comes February …
Valentine’s Day is an emotional pressure cooker wrapped in pink tissue paper. Everyone’s comparing flower bouquets, romantic captions, and whether their partner “did enough.” Social media becomes a highlight reel of performative love. And if you’re dating someone, the pressure is on for both of you. But for all the hearts and hashtags, Valentine’s Day …
For a long time, chemistry has been treated as the gold standard of romantic truth. If it’s instant, intense, magnetic, and your body reacts before your brain can catch up, it’s magic. We’ve been conditioned to believe chemistry is real and rare. That’s the narrative we’ve inherited from decades of love songs, rom-coms, and well-meaning …
How to Emotionally Respond After Being Ghosted covered recognizing a ghoster and what to do if it happens to you. But what do you do when they come back? It’s a fair question. If someone vanished without explanation, why would they suddenly reappear like nothing happened? The short answer is that ghosters don’t want a connection; …
If you’ve ever been ghosted, you know how brutal it feels. One minute you’re texting like usual, the next… silence. No explanation, no goodbye, just a vanishing act. It’s confusing, hurtful, and honestly? It messes with your self-worth. In this post, I’m sharing how I handled being ghosted and what helped me move forward with …