Holidays have a way of magnifying everything especially one-sided emotional labor. This category explores how love, self-worth, and relationship dynamics show up around high-stakes dates like Valentine’s Day, birthdays, anniversaries, and more.
There’s a specific kind of love that only blooms in February. The type where the effort is seasonal, the affection is performative, and the flowers are delivered right on cue because it’s February 14, and that’s what’s expected. For 24 hours, you’re flooded with the illusion of being loved and cherished. But then comes February …
Valentine’s Day is an emotional pressure cooker wrapped in pink tissue paper. Everyone’s comparing flower bouquets, romantic captions, and whether their partner “did enough.” Social media becomes a highlight reel of performative love. And if you’re dating someone, the pressure is on for both of you. But for all the hearts and hashtags, Valentine’s Day …